Marriage Officiants in Cape Town

At SHCSA, we believe that love knows no boundaries, and every couple deserves to celebrate their union in a way that is both meaningful and personal to them. with 12 years’ of experience we understand that many people today prefer non-denominational wedding ceremonies that reflect their unique love stories, and that same-sex couples often face challenges in finding a welcoming and inclusive space to exchange their vows. That’s why we have made it our mission to provide a solution that allows couples to have the wedding ceremony of their dreams without any limitations or restrictions, regardless of race, sexual preference, or beliefs.

With a deep understanding of the desires and needs of modern couples, we have taken on the responsibility of offering a bespoke service that caters to those who seek a non-traditional, non-denominational, and inclusive wedding experience. We also include traditions in a lay manner if you like. Whether you envision a romantic ceremony at your preferred venue, a beautiful garden setting, or a more intimate gathering at our residence, we are here to make your special day truly unforgettable. We understand that the process of getting married should be a joyous occasion from start to finish, and that is why we have streamlined the process to eliminate the hassle and stress often associated with traditional wedding arrangements. Say goodbye to long queues at government offices and impersonal ceremonies – with us, you can expect a personalised and heartfelt experience that celebrates your love in a way that is authentic to you.

Our team of dedicated professionals is committed to ensuring that every detail of your ceremony is tailored to your preferences, creating a warm and welcoming atmosphere that reflects the unique bond you share with your partner. From selecting the perfect readings or poems to crafting personalized vows, we are here to support you every step of the way.

Whether you are planning a small and intimate gathering or a grand celebration with all your loved ones, we are here to make your vision a reality. Let us take care of the ceremony and registration details so you can focus on what truly matters – celebrating your love and commitment in a way that feels genuine and meaningful to you.

I don’t have enough words to describe how deeply grateful Richard and I are that we were so blessed to have you officiate our marriage. It was such a special and moving experience with words spoken that we will hold in our hearts forever. From beginning to end it was so incredibly special and we enjoyed every moment standing with you, under the tree taking in your words. So many people have said what a wonderful ceremony it was. – Liz

I love weddings and my desire for your wedding is to leave you and your guests remembering your wedding for the special romantic moments, kind words, meaningful content and a bit of humour. I’ve had the joy of conducting over 400 weddings since 2008, hearing brides and grooms say “I do” on Yachts, on Table Mountain, at homes, at Wine Farms, on many beaches and many other beautiful wedding venues all around the Cape.. Let me help you make it an unforgettable memory and “stress-free”, so that you can focus on everything else. I do formal, semi-formal and informal weddings.

After 10 years of doing weddings, I have so many small ideas to help make your ceremony unique and special. Ultimately it’s what’s you want at the end of day. I love meeting with bridal couples to discuss their special day. We can meet at a Coffee-shop (social distancing LOL), or over a Zoom video call or on a WhatsApp video call. I find these “meet n greet” moments to be absolutely crucial. Not only will you get a good feel for who I am and what I do, but I will start getting a great idea of what you are looking for. I am super flexible. I love doing things that are different, and I always encourage couples to put their own special touch on the ceremony. I look forward to helping you. Click here to see more.

John. It has been just over a month since Ryan and myself got married. We are both loving married life and could not be happier. We would love to Thank You for your commitment to making our ceremony so personal and moving. All our wedding guests and especially our family enjoyed hearing about the 7 Keys to a successful marriage. The whole day was magical. Ryan and I were so grateful that you made this experience so comfortable and trouble-free. Thank you again. Kindest Regards, Ryan and Nathalie

Of all the experiences that bring you joy, to fall in reciprocated love defines happiness.  It wraps all the fun you ever had into one bundle, all the feelings of being loved, and adored, and known, embraced, welcomed, and understood, and it irrevocably redefines how you will view yourself and how you will think about the purpose of your life, from that moment on. So what do you do to keep that love alive? What do you do to exponentially increase the impact of that significant event through the rest of your life? It’s easy! You pop the question, don’t you!

Hi there, we are married couple, Symi and Ava from Tie the Knot Cape Town, Overberg & Beyond and we LOVE, love. We believe in love, we believe in staying together, we believe in talking things through, and we believe in making peace. We live to put each other first. We make it our business to understand each other, guide each other, and have difficult conversations if need be. We spend time together, and most importantly, we have fun together. We know that you do too. When you want to get married on our own terms, you may find that it is increasingly difficult to find someone who speaks “us”. You might end up making compromises and sacrifices to “normalize” your wedding day to other people’s expectations. At Tie the Knot Cape Town, Overberg & Beyond, we’re really keen for the two of you to have Your day, Your way.  We would love to create a wedding ceremony that captures your laughter, and the joy of being together. We word the feeling of cuddles, and contentment and wrap you two up in the sentence that excitedly lasts a lifetime.

But – can we marry the two of you? What if you two are of a different religion, or if you’re a gay or lesbian couple? What if you have children, and you’d like the kids to be part of the actual ceremony? We, celebrate love, beyond race, religion, gender, orientation or tradition. And once you’ve got a place of complete acceptance, you can start celebrating the differentness of who you are as a couple, what you’re like as individuals, and the love that circumscribes your being together. We celebrate your love with you whether it’s just the two of you, or even if it’s the two of you amidst a world of guests who expect a different kind of day than you are going to give them. We share the moment with you in which you become family, when you start measuring your laughter and togetherness in lifetimes, rather than anniversaries.

We’d love to make your day, your way – a true celebration of your love, and a moment of reveling in just how beautiful and precious your relationship is. Strike up a chat with us, and let’s make your day happen, your way.

Symi and Ava understand that Love Is Love… And that it deserves to be celebrated in whatever way you and your future spouse see fit. My now HUSBAND (!!) and I were over the moon delighted when we found Tie the Knot Cape Town online. I am from Scotland, he is from the USA and we live on a boat in Fiji, so you can imagine that planning our free-spirited, non-traditional wedding from afar was not always easy!  From the second we received our first email back from these girls we knew we’d struck gold and this feeling was only compounded after our first Skype chat. Two more genuine, kinder human beings do not exist! They made the whole process from start to finish an absolute delight and we cannot thank them enough. Both Symi and Ava went out of their way – above and beyond – to be sure we understood all the paperwork requirements for two foreigners, to check over the details of our self-written ceremony and to be sure we understood the flow of things in the lead up to the big day. On the wedding day itself, they brought a lovely calming energy to the celebrations and helped us to revel in the joy of marriage. – Vanessa and Chad

Rev Dr Lesly Uys from Wildflower Weddings has had the honour of officiating at many delightful, love-filled weddings and is a registered Marriage Officer. Her speciality is how she customises your day specifically to who you are as a couple, bringing in a gentleness of spirit and serenity that is evident in her dealings with you from your first pre-wedding meeting. Although she is an ordained minister, she embraces all faiths and lifestyles. Dr Uys’s services include: Commitment renewals, Elopements, GLBTIQ ceremonies, Handfasting rituals, Legal signing only, Full ceremonies and signing.

The Chapel: Set in the heart of a Nature Reserve is a delightfully rustic Chapel quietly awaiting your arrival. The chapel is set among wise, established trees in the heart of old country and peace. For your special, historic moment of your love story, she offers you a venue and day filled with whimsy and romance. Butterflies float by as bees busily trill around flowers and squirrels curiously pop in for a quick peek. The magnificent bird life encapsulates all the tranquillity, freedom and excitement you feel on your magical day. The Chapel homes intimate, bespoke wedding families of up to fifteen people. Full wedding planning services and catering are available to take the stress out of your day. Click here to see more.

You were absolutely everything we wanted and more. You made our ceremony personal, lighthearted yet we still felt the meaning in every word. The fact that you included our young son and connected so beautifully with him was the cherry on top. We got along with you so well from the first zoom call and you made us feel so relaxed and ran the whole ceremony seamlessly. – Caitlin & Calvin

Willie Viljoen, a registered Marriage Officer based in Cape Town, South Africa, officiates marriages for South African and International couples at any location in the Western Cape. With over 39 years of experience in hosting beautiful wedding ceremonies, Willie offers a special, memorable service no matter your belief system, culture, or personal style. His unique approach has earned him the title ‘Marriage Officer of Choice’ as well as multiple accolades which includes “Best Marriage Officer 2022” For a wedding ceremony filled with warmth, love and joy, Willie Viljoen will guide you to plan your ‘wedding show’ – a celebration to enjoy and a memory to last a lifetime. Choose from a religious, semi-religious or nonreligious wedding ceremony and Willie will bring flair to your special day, both in a formal or informal setting. Whether it is a very intimate occasion, or hundreds of guests, we tailor-make your wedding ceremony to suit your style and personal preference. Willie will ensure that your wedding is the most special, fun and memorable day of your life! Click here to see more.

Thank you so much for the pictures. We are very glad that we have chosen you as our wedding officer. Thank you for your loving, funny and emotional ceremony. The day was amazing! – Gabriel & Julia